I had horrible experiences in the military many years ago, with few exceptions military guys are fully disgusting to me and I will not date them.
It is far better to mention this before we have met. It is something sure to cause fights, and a break up later on.
Amount of military men who hit on me when I had an A average at University 1996-2000 = zero. Amout of jerk military guys who hit on me weekly since 2005, three per week saying “Hey baby nice ass.” I hate you guys.