Dear Men who are evil to women in matters of child support, communication, and help with daycare on their children. A vasectomy is a very safe thing, and only costs $350 at Planned Parenthood. Blaming women for your lack of control is the symptom of a very violent and abusive society. No one put a gun to your head, and made you do anything you did not want to do. Fresh from the latest battle with my daughter’s dad….